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陳忻玥 Vicky Chen x 李杰明 W.M.L【But You Give it Up】Official MV
李杰明 W.M.L Playlist: ua-cam.com/play/PL_BJh1Mu7PPeS2THyw0DMZOYBOhYS2EAx.html
李杰明 W.M.L IG: wmlhiphop
陳忻玥 Vicky Chen Playlist: ua-cam.com/play/PL_BJh1Mu7PPesjmDrxXWkBeOs3WKaA4nh.html
陳忻玥 Vicky Chen IG: vickychenmusic
SKRpresents IG: skrpresents
Listen: www.soundscape.net/a/58785
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But You Give it Up
詞|李杰明W.M.L & 陳忻玥Vicky Chen
曲|陳忻玥Vicky Chen & 李杰明W.M.L & 陶山Skot Suyama
我用盡了全力 but you give it up
Why you give it up
Why you give it up
When it’s about us
我拋下了自己 but you give it up
Why you give it up
Why you give it up
我又再次站在這裡
再次毀得徹底
我又再次站在哪裡
再次停止呼吸
命運來就來了無法擋我埋著我的謊
性命來就來了如墳場我還是只能闖
看見了夢 看見了痛
看見了我的沉重
看見了夢 看見了痛
看見了我的裂縫
我相信所有選擇都有苦衷
我相信我的夢 我也相信不會目送
又是無盡的等待
我選擇了自己是否算是戰敗
我受夠無盡的忍耐
我對你或對這一切到底算不算愛
當我記起來 當我氣急敗壞時 先別走
記起來 眼睛閉起來 還是牽著手
一起來的情緒如何不被牽著走
看著立起來的告示牌,我只能堅持守
我用盡了全力 but you give it up
Why you give it up
Why you give it up
When it’s about us
我拋下了自己 but you give it up
Why you give it up
Why you give it up
我想爬起來站著 想打理還亂的
想爬起來看著 卻拿起了藤蔓
拜託讓我放棄我 也拜託讓我忘記我
太多重新再來過 太多無法遠離我
拿起行囊想踏上了人生的不歸之路
高塔裡刑房我踏進了無盡的痛心之處
我想放棄卻也放不過我自己
想放棄去抗議我葬送我的心理
又是無盡的等待
我選擇了自己是否算是戰敗
我受夠無盡的忍耐
我對你或對這一切到底算不算愛
我要選擇我 還是選擇你 還是選擇躲
還是堅持以後其實才是真的我
不管前方的狀態有多糟 我帶著我去過
不管此刻恐懼有多高我還是選擇走
我用盡了全力 but you give it up
Why you give it up
Why you give it up
When it’s about us
我拋下了自己 but you give it up
Why you give it up
Why you give it up
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導演:陳昱辰 Chensport
導演助理:侯妙樺
製片:KenStop
製片助理:徐子凡
攝影師:陳哲昀
攝影大助:蔡豐駿
攝影二助:鄭詩萍
燈光師 曾皓
燈光助理 吳煜軒
燈光助理 游易軒
燈光司機 胡建翔
幕後側拍:陳柏安
服裝設計:洋子
W.M.L衣服+男女鞋子:psycho cycle
Vicky外套:irensense
Vicky飾品:julie workshop 茱莉工藝所
剪輯:陳昱辰
調光:陳哲昀
動畫:陳昱辰
標準字設計:吳語馨Gipi
化妝師 Make up:丁丁
化妝助理 Make up Assistants:Zoe
髮型師 Hair Stylist:許育珊
髮型助理 Hair Assistants:呂書萱
經紀:魏麟懿
經紀執行:房洺緯
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  • @yixuan_05.29_
    @yixuan_05.29_ 16 годин тому

    超讚ㄉ😋❤️

  • @NetYiyunMusic
    @NetYiyunMusic 21 годину тому

    好好聽的!誰都同感覺的举手 ↓

  • @djsunboy-ol5ot
    @djsunboy-ol5ot 22 години тому

    忻玥充滿生命力的轉音讓人沉醉

  • @4KLyricsMusic-no1
    @4KLyricsMusic-no1 День тому

    不管是面臨考試或疫情及確診的每個人,大家都要加油,主保守每一個人,我們一定會勝過疫情的,謝謝音樂的陪伴!

  • @user-pd9os1of9d
    @user-pd9os1of9d День тому

    原來從前我們擁有這麼多..….. 隨便任何一個都唱得出色動聽👏👏💕

  • @BeautifulRelaxingMusic835
    @BeautifulRelaxingMusic835 День тому

    Vicky久違的新歌

  • @FM235-mw7ux
    @FM235-mw7ux День тому

    這個影片真是太經典了!看到這麼多偉大的藝術家名字,一定會帶我們回到美好的時光。期待更多!

  • @user-qt9jh6xy4y
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    我後悔趁著肚子痛的時候出去玩 想努力賺錢養你卻養成了壞習慣

  • @user-ue7cy5zv2h
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    @clonyoutube День тому

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  • @Tower-of-Saviors-loyal-player

    好聽欸

  • @Tower-of-Saviors-loyal-player

    好聽欸

  • @user-yf6rv7zz3h
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    我看不見舞台上的光 但我看見舞台上的傷 我不知道誰有權利決定別人 開了心窗關了心窗 關於上帝你也想當? 如果站在台上代表你也饑荒 如果站在台上代表你也心慌 如果站在台上代表你有希望能夠拼裝 在你夢裡果實的清香 全部都我選擇 全部給我譴責 詮釋複雜匾額 全部都是臉 全部都是眼神 可能 我的才華其實不是饒舌 我的才華當然絕對不可能是唱歌 我的才華只不過是文字裡的坦承 我的才華只不過是一場心如刀割 Burn it down Turn it down 我貼上的標籤Tear it down 最原本的自己在我心中叫 害怕我的冷漠變得就像冰風暴 所以 想改變就改得徹底 不想半途而廢最好不要給我撤離 我想這個時候就在考驗我的熱情 我的課題 我還站在這⋯ 放開了 那些沈重的 看似完美的 無比虛假的 重新的 我正認識著 沒有極限的 那自由的 Cutting off the strings that makes me feel safe Cause I just wanna be free 重新的 我正認識著 那自由的 Cause I’m alive 情緒已暴躁 抱怨已經無效 我知道 哭完了才能笑 苦口因為良藥 我嚐到了 情緒已暴躁 抱怨已經無效 我知道 哭完了才能笑 苦口因為良藥 Let’s go 告訴我說撐不下去你也可以放棄 但我告訴我說這是我的靈魂正在抗議 我想為了自己拼一把我不能垂頭喪氣 我想突破所有框架但是初衷不能忘記 背著錦旗戰鬥 背著行囊戰鬥 放開包袱看破 放開心牆看 放開刀劍纏鬥 放開了 那些沈重的 看似完美的 無比虛假的 重新的 我正認識著 沒有極限的 那自由的 Cutting off the strings that makes me feel safe Cause I just wanna be free 重新的 我正認識著 那自由的 Cause I’m alive 情緒已暴躁 抱怨已經無效 我知道 哭完了才能笑 苦口因為良藥 我嚐到了 情緒已暴躁 抱怨已經無效 我知道 哭完了才能笑 苦口因為良藥

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    ❤❤❤

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    @吳昕宸-t6h День тому

    這麼多年過去了,這首歌依然耐聽nice

  • @hottrendsdouyin
    @hottrendsdouyin День тому

    準時到達首播了

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    @user-zh2gi8mh5w День тому

    超愛❤

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    @SKRPRESENTS День тому

    我們的新朋友芛珩喔❤可以去聽她的新歌!

  • @xuanluzhiai4444
    @xuanluzhiai4444 День тому

    这是一首治愈系的歌曲,听了让人心情愉悦。😊😊😊

  • @crazylfo1
    @crazylfo1 День тому

    最愛陳忻玥 李杰明 這對組合了

  • @sandeshthapamagar9252
    @sandeshthapamagar9252 День тому

    Got the similar vibe of I'm Alive. Loved it.

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    @SGA002 День тому

    這二人組超猛的,之前的那首I'm alive 就是成功的案例

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    @pheilim6546 День тому

  • @jim8989
    @jim8989 День тому

    想聽李杰明跟周興哲這對兄弟對唱~哈哈是很像啦

  • @user-kn8ww1ls1b
    @user-kn8ww1ls1b День тому

    還得是妳才這麼好聽😍

  • @Chinese-dj-remix-2024
    @Chinese-dj-remix-2024 День тому

    忻玥充滿生命力的轉音讓人沉醉

  • @user-cy1xk5ik3q
    @user-cy1xk5ik3q День тому

    我們互相吸引著對方 但 我們也互相排斥對方 明明 很近 可是 中間 卻 隔著一條銀河 努力的把自己融入對方 是溶入? 是毀滅自己 成為對方的一部分 不知道 只知道 此刻的我們 很幸福 很痛苦 卻又很享受 hi 最熟悉的 陌生人 你(妳)還 記得 我們相遇 相愛的 那一刻嗎......?

  • @chinesesong89
    @chinesesong89 День тому

    好好聽哦,优美的旋律,有韻味的歌声令人陶醉💖聲音很乾淨分部也很清楚,讓人會一直想聽下去,好好聽的!誰同感請擺擺手🙋🙋🙋

  • @FM190-ld7qz
    @FM190-ld7qz 2 дні тому

    你的歌真好聽、一首接一首、百聽不厭、越聽越好聽、越聽越想聽!讚

  • @user-nv3rh3rt8s
    @user-nv3rh3rt8s 2 дні тому

    好好聽阿,呦…,我到是有一個想法,是否陶山老師能幫助日本動漫動畫,這樣子吧!不分什麼色情不色情的動漫,因為我們有了所有人都很喜歡看動漫,男女老少幼兒咸宜。,,不知是否有機會和木棉花Taiwan合作一條歌曲一首產生出拥有情趣情愫感情用事的偏激烈饒舌歌曲呢…杰明哥跟忻玥姊再出一首歌。畢竟one republics都出kaijus no,.8,的了😊🎉

  • @user-nv3rh3rt8s
    @user-nv3rh3rt8s 2 дні тому

    🎉🎉😮😮

  • @paulsai0720
    @paulsai0720 2 дні тому

    這禮拜六在嘉義第一次聽到這首歌,有被驚豔到❤

  • @owen67811
    @owen67811 2 дні тому

    Lanjiao

  • @user-hx5xi7mu3j
    @user-hx5xi7mu3j 2 дні тому

    李杰明的詞還是一樣無意義的湊字押韻 都幾年過去了 挺好笑的

  • @zaclkla_zhang
    @zaclkla_zhang 2 дні тому

    什麼時候會再發實體專輯💿 等太久啦

  • @user-fo4gj2ht5o
    @user-fo4gj2ht5o 2 дні тому

    戀愛❤

  • @kkbox-6789
    @kkbox-6789 2 дні тому

    太好听了,祝看到这条评论的每个人,健康平安,天天快樂,事事顺利,聰明有愛心,容貌英俊或美丽,有仁慈和笑容,有好听的聲音,祝福每個人愛情永固,永結同心,百年好合,多福多壽,生出孝子賢孫,定成聖賢.❤

  • @bluemanlan8653
    @bluemanlan8653 2 дні тому

    喜歡❤

  • @user-pc6ey3fc6q
    @user-pc6ey3fc6q 2 дні тому

    是熟悉的陳忻玥x李杰明

  • @user-mo7pv4yp9y
    @user-mo7pv4yp9y 2 дні тому

    太好听了吧

  • @345674432
    @345674432 2 дні тому

    左邊是D,右邊是E,而且你是男性....現在腦海裡都這個

  • @user-wr2sn9wd2h
    @user-wr2sn9wd2h 2 дні тому

    2024了還在聽

  • @annemontgomery6167
    @annemontgomery6167 2 дні тому

    I love that you guys add subtitles for people like me who do not know mandarin. Now I will play the "guess what this is about" game. I do think that the lyrics are pretty clear; someone who is choosing themselves (or their career, or their values, or whatever they perceive to be their first priority...) over a relationship that does not seem to help with their priority. And the other person who is left behind and feels abandoned by this shift in priorities. We hear the doubts of the male character in his voice, and there is sadness and slight anger and also frustration from the female character in her voice. The video itself is a bit more mysterious I think. Maybe the freefalling is letting go of the boundaries of the previous relationship, and not knowing where to go next; a bit like a new beginning but you do not know the direction just yet; it could also signify feeling caged by a relationship, especially if it was hindering you from making progress towards a priority goal. The combination of both of them (on the beach, but also in the beautifully lit scenes) show them figuratively push and pulling (facing each other, then backs to each other as a more literal version), as if they are both hesitant to give each other up. But on the other hand, the pushing from the female is partially an annoyed feeling of "why would I want someone who does not want me and who just gives up like that ". I feel that duality is well-represented by lyrics, cinemography, and voice use. SKRpresents, how far off am I with what the director intended? This has become a fun game to play haha. I do feel that the more artists are involved, the harder it is to guess what something is about, as they all bring their own interpretations to the song, so we have both of the singers here as well as the director of the video, but I assume the translator may be another person, as they may have needed to change some of the words used in English, which may change the meaning.

    • @skotsuyama000
      @skotsuyama000 День тому

      Honestly, I never ask what the director intended. I found out that for me, playing the game of guessing and wondering is usually much more meaningful than actually knowing what the director’s idea was. I was watching House of the Dragon’s behind the scenes and was really disappointed. My original feeling in the episode was so deep and meaningful. But the HBO executive’s explanation was so simple and meaningless. It was really disappointing. So now I pretend that the person giving the interview was just some assistant because the actual show runner was too busy working or camera shy. And I often know that something is lost in translation. As my Mandarin slowly improves, I’m starting to see the cultural differences are so hard to explain inside a translation. And I still don’t understand the poetry of Chinese yet. So when I see these flowery translations, I know there’s some deep meaning or interesting wordplay that I simply don’t understand. I wonder how much I miss out by not being fluent. But still, that’s the magic of music. I might be missing all of these bits, but I’m still moved! Music for me has always been its own language. And art is always more meaningful for me when it leaves me room for my own interpretation.

  • @iverson03032002
    @iverson03032002 2 дні тому

    歌真好聽 但髮型師可以開除嗎

  • @maijusinkko4164
    @maijusinkko4164 2 дні тому

    This songs seems to put me in a better mood. It's not exactly a feeling of happiness but more of a feeling of gaining strength and hope. And I like the rhythm. Or the beat? Haha, I'm sorry, I really suck at musical terms. 😅 I just know if I like something or not. And this song has something I like because I can feel it in my chest but I don't know what it is. Maybe it's just the drums. 😂 Once again, I find the lyrics interesting. Lots to think about later. And the MV is captivating. Even with very few things actually happening, it still captures the attention fully. Even though the song has a positive effect on me, the rest of the text will probably sound, hmmm... not so positive. 😅 The rest of the text is less about the song and more about me just getting things off my chest. Feel free to skip the rest (I promise, you won't miss out on much. And it is quite long...) I'm not a fighter. It's engraved in my brain that I shouldn't even try if there's a chance of failure or if it might be difficult. Just stick to what I know, stick to the safe option. I'm terribly afraid of failing. And there's no danger of failing when I don't even try in the first place. For example, I never went to university even though my grades were excellent. I was always super stressed at school, so instead, I chose to study for a degree at a local vocational college because I new I'd be able to pass it with flying colours and with little to no stress. This is something that sometimes haunts me, I'm ashamed of my weakness. Sure, of course I could go back to school, but the truth is, just the thought of having to go back to school still makes me nauseous. And sometimes I think maybe I don't find my job interesting anymore (I've been doing it for over ten years). But I'm too scared to do anything about it. Probably because for a long time now, I've felt like I have nothing to offer an employer: I'm not highly educated, I'm not particularly talented at anything, I crack under pressure and I seriously lack confidence in myself. Hardly an employer's wet dream. 😆 So, I just stand in the middle of the storm, paralysed. As I was trying to figure out what to write this time and thinking to myself 'I'm such a coward. Why am I so weak?', it occurred to me: I actually fought one of my personal demons last summer and autumn (about me not wanting to have kids). And this spring when I got sad, instead of running away from the uncomfortability of the emotion and becoming anxious like I usually do, I let it wash over me. I can't deny, at times I thought the saddness would crush me. But I breathed and waited, and gradually the worst of it faded and I came out as the winner (pretty bruised and hurting, but a winner nonetheless). Maybe I'm not a such a complete coward, after all. It's just that some of my battles are still ahead of me. P.S. I'm pretty sure this text (at least not all of it) won't stay here for long. I already feel so selfish for having written this when I'm fully aware my problems aren't 'real problems' at all. But I guess I'm hoping that I can put everything into perspective once I get it out of my head.

    • @annemontgomery6167
      @annemontgomery6167 2 дні тому

      You should not diminish your own problems by comparing it with others' issues. Are there worse issues? Sure. But you can find worse things to those worse issues, too. That does not lessen the fact that YOU are impacted by YOUR issues. It is not selfish. For your job vs degree; I think a vocational degree was a very good option. Failure anxiety can be paralyzing, so instead of taking the potential to absolutely bomb because of that unresolved anxiety (I did this my first year in uni), you decided to not waste your time and get a worthwhile degree. I think not being talented at something is something we can all agree can be annoying; I have no talents, so I am in awe of people like WML and Vicky Chen so seemingly do this without much hard work. But underlying their results is pure dedication and hard work. There is no such thing as a talent you are born with and then you can use it. You have to work at it and hone those skills. I have always had an intuition for statistics, so once I felt that, I focused on that, and am now doing a job in that. It took me a lot longer than normal people (I started in my early 30s) but I feel good in my job now. If you are no longer interested in your job, I would find a hobby that sustains you. If your career has always been your main focus, then I would instead find a different job. No one says you have to quit your actual job; you can always see what is out there first. And in the meantime, try out some hobbies, see what you like to do, see what you would love to get good at (this is much more important than what you are already good at, for sure). Good luck, and I hope you feel better soon. Therapy is also always an option; many do counseling over the phone now. There are also exercises you can do to control those negative thoughts, if you look into cognitive behavioral therapy; this is designed for people to do themselves. There are several books on them; I really like the "for dummies" one, as it had the best exercises I had found. It stopped my anxiety for about 98%.

    • @skotsuyama000
      @skotsuyama000 День тому

      Wow! What an amazing comment and an amazing response. I want to chime in too to share, but don’t know if it’ll be helpful at all. I also dropped out of University after only a month. I just couldn’t bring myself to go. I didn’t understand myself at the time. I felt like a loser. Everyone else had no problem going to class. But I just couldn’t do it. I got depressed, went to therapy for about a year. I’ll say therapy helped me at that time. But looking back, I see it so differently now. The biggest issue was that I didn’t know who I was. I was trying so hard to fit into society’s standard of going to College after High School. But actually, I already knew that I wanted to make music all day. I didn’t know how to turn making music all day into a proper job. I didn’t even know if I was good enough. But I knew that living in Seattle and getting high with my friends wasn’t helping. Like you, I was scared to make a move. So many ‘What if’s running through my head. But eventually everyday became so painful for me. My depression got worse, and I only felt alive when making music. And suddenly, something inside me reversed. I’d much rather choose the unknown and possibility of failure than this monotonous depressing life that I was choosing to live. So I made a huge life altering change. Moved to LA and went to a music school there. Met some amazing friends. Then made another life altering choice by moving to Taiwan without speaking any Chinese because I got a job offer to make music. And now I’m way older. But I still find myself being depressed (usually because I’m living in society’s standards and not my own standards). And everytime I feel down, and know that I’m scared to jump into the unknown because I’m scared of failure, I’ll think… ‘Is my life really so perfect that I don’t want to try something new?’ And the answer is of course not. Then the choice becomes which is worse, Fear of Failure, or Fear of Everyday is the Same? And once I successfully embraced Failure, I knew that I have that chance to really learn valuable life lessons from each failure. I won’t say I’m great at this. But I know that it’s possible, so the idea of failure has changed for me. It became a possible positive. But I need to put in the effort to learn from my failure to turn it into a positive. It takes work. But I’m surrounded by people who are also bravely facing themselves and asking themselves tough questions everyday. So I’m inspired to try my best. Anyway, don’t know if this will help at all, but it feels great to share anyway.

  • @wei_hsiang717
    @wei_hsiang717 2 дні тому

    南無阿彌陀佛

  • @eunting3440
    @eunting3440 2 дні тому

    受不了了好好聽🥹🥹🥹

  • @Princesszuko
    @Princesszuko 2 дні тому

    好看 又好聽 as always 💕